The Issues in finding and maintaining the right partner/relationship can be either of these:
1. You are strongly attracted to the wrong people and end up getting hurt
2. You have blocks to being with the right people, leading to self-sabotage and developing a poor self worth
3. You are not aligned with bringing or retaining the right partner into your life you have freqent heart breaks
4. Your relationships trigger you and mirror your own weakness
Most of the relationships though appear to be different but at the core are similar. So the issues can be at home, office and also with self. You can fall under any of the above, though you may feel you are very mature to cause any problems but it is your inner child issues that get triggered/mirrored in all troubled relationships.
So let us understand your inner child . As you grow up, you unconsciously form an image of your future partner based on the strongest traits of your parents, both good and bad. You will then be subconsciously attracted to people with similar traits. This is not a problem for the good traits, but it can be a big problem for the bad ones.
For instance, let's say that your father had a number of good traits, including intelligence, strength, and humor. However, he was emotionally distant and unavailable. A woman who grew up in this environment would tend to find intelligent, strong, humorous, emotionally unavailable men the most attractive men on the planet! It's all good except for that one trait that will trigger you. Sounds familiar?
Similarly, if a man grew up with a warm, loving and giving mother who also happened to be insecure and needy, what kind of women might he be drawn to? It is important to note that you are not limited to being attracted to the traits of the parent of the opposite sex. Your subconscious image can be a combination of either or both parents.